Unfortunately, it's really hard to convince Sarah that reality doesn't work the way she thinks it does. She's set herself up in a universe where she's doomed to fail- but at least she knows what's coming. This leads to almost perpetual debates over... everything. Daily. Last night it was that she was allowed to wear heels and did not have to always dress functionally- she could dress for looks too (she was of the mind that it was wrong to be feminine).