If, being someone who knows something that others don't, and I feel that they should know, and THAT violates your trust: FUck you.
If me not accepting that your current actions are the best without you letting me know what's going on is a violation of your trust: Fuck you.
If I'm not allowed to disagree with you: Fuck you.
If I'm not allowed to be concerned: Fuck you.
If you can't be open with the people who care about you...
Then I'm sorry.