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There are certain reasons that I might apologize for something.
  • Through carelessness or purposeful malice, I have caused harm(physical/emotional/etc) to others.
  • Making arguments based on factual errors: "Oh! I'm sorry, I stand corrected."


Off the top of my head, that covers it. In both cases, we're talking about apologizing for actions that I regret.

What I do not apologize for is speaking my mind- even if it offends people. I don't ever regret being open about my arguments. My thoughts are mine, and if you have a valid argument against them, I would be most interested in hearing it. I do not expect, or require that people agree with me. But if you're going to discuss your point-of-view with me- be prepared to defend it (if I find it disagreeable). Especially if the conversation starts with you entering into a debate. When I join the debate, don't suddenly be offended that I rip your arguments to shreds.

Now, one thing that does piss me off is when people make these sorts of posts that are oblique references to something else that none of their readership knows about. So, let me clarify this whole thing. ellie is pissed at me for ripping into Christianity and religion in general. In my mind, this was a dispassionate conversation about a topic- obviously other people didn't feel that way about it. That's ellie's problem, not mine. It was, at no point, a personal attack. It displeases me that it was interpreted that way- but I don't regret my part in it. Nor should this be news to anyone- I think it's been well established that I'm a confrontational and debate oriented person, so much so that I'll debate subjects that I don't have any interest in, and I'll take sides in a debate I don't agree with for the sole purpose of honing my rhetoric.
  • It was that pathetic little Christian meme-virus in her brain struggling to survive. It made her angry at you so as to protect itself.
    • Fuck you. This wasn't about an arguement. This was my feelings getting hurt and someone I thought was a friend completely unable to apologize for hurting my feelings. I don't mock his beliefs, and yet he was mocking mine. Sorry, but that's called being a shitty friend.

      There's many things that I could say, all of them hurtful, so I won't.
    • Did it ever occur to you that what you say here could easily be described in similar terms? Your own anti-Christian meme-virus kicking in to cause you to mock something you are unable of conceptualizing in a meaningful way?

      I wouldn't necessarily call it that myself but you might perhaps examine your own words for moments when they are self-applicable.
      • I know you weren't replying to my comment, but I'd like to point out that I'm not anti-Christian. I am anti-theist. My reasons for this are simple: there is no evidence to support such a thing, there is no compelling reason to adopt such a belief, and there are a large number of serious philosophical problems that are created by adopting a specific theistic religion. The plethora inconsistencies in the "Big 3" of monotheism are problematic to any potential religious adopter.

        I, personally, don't mock religion. Theism is an indefensible position from any rational standpoint.
      • Oh, I conceptualized it for what it was, hence: A virus. It's host is the human mind. It seeks to expand, grow, and spread into other human minds and alter them. It turns them into copies of the original host, and alters the mind to defend the virus by whatever means required.

        Religions, philosophies, even languages - all memes, all viral in nature. The question, then, is what do these viri seek to accomplish once they've infected enough minds?

        Well, I know of one that, upon reaching a certain population threshold of infection, invariably becomes impatient with the "conversion" (read: infection) process and simply begins wholesale slaughter on anyone who carries a different virus (or none at all) to insure it's survival. Just ask the six million Jews who died at the hands of Christians in WW2, and the countless millions of other non-Christians who've died at the hands of "Christian Love" over the last two thousand years.

        It's a death cult, pure and simple. The only reason they aren't shooting "heretics" on sight to this day is that the "heretics" have learned to band together and fight back - for now. Those these days it seems that may change back, which one would suppose is great for Christians and bad for everyone else in the world.

        But as long as you're on the side holding the guns to the backs of people's heads, who cares, right?
  • I can see where you're coming from, but you should know by now that religion is a very touchy and personal issue, and that 'ripping into their argument' especially when it wasn't a particularly volatile or extreme argument in the first place, can come off as very hurtful.
    • Which I understand, but in my mind- that's not my problem. It ceases being personal when you start a discussion on the topic.

      I'm not comfortable with self-censoring just so that "we can get along". I'm perfectly happy avoiding the subject. In most situations, that's what I do. If a friend of mine posts a religious statement in their journal, if I don't have anything constructive to say, I don't comment there. This was a specific religious debate in Minna's journal. If one isn't ready to have their poor arguments shown for what they are, they really shouldn't start those sorts of debates. If ellie had followed my rule and not commented in someone else's personal post (marked with warnings for possible offense I might add), we wouldn't be in this situation.
    • Perhaps you might consider the fact that while you consider things to be a certain way, and that they ought to be a certain way, does not mean that they are.

      If you are not comfortable self-censoring for the sake of friendship then that is admirable. However, you also should not expect to keep many friends. A vast majority of the population is incapable of accepting blunt and confrontational personal opinions in more mature and detached ways. Especially on such sesitive topics.

      I am not saying she should have necessarily taken the conversation in the direction she did. Its unwise, in my opinion, to start a discussion on a topic if contradictory opinions will offend you. I am simply saying that if you know her, and somehow expected her to react in any way other than how she did, perhaps you should take some time to rehone your powers of observation, eh?
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  • Huzzah for LJ drama. If not for it I might get something done with my time my life would be empty and meaningless.

    What is your IM bye the way? I would think that we might have some interesting conversations if we chatted. Coming down on largely different sides of many issues yet still managing to respect each other(at least for my part) would, I think, make for at least good self-reflective dialogue.
    • That will have to wait for a later date however. Tonite I have commited to go and enjoy the evening with my brother. I'll check this when I get back however.
    • My IM handle is the same as my LJ name- but I'm rarely on IM (read: a few minutes a month, at most). I'll use the Gmail chat feature (gmail addy is the same as my LJ name, again).

      I think you're right though- some interesting conversations.
  • What no one has mentioned

    That faith in something differs from proof.

    The majority of religion, in my exposure, is based on the concept of faith. To have faith in something does not require absolute proof. It is impossible to prove that you believe in something. It is only somewhat verifiable through past behavior.

    I must say that I'm quite suprised that the intellects between all of this did not have the capacity to point this out.

    Everyone would do well to keep a clear definition between the two. It should be someone's ability to defend their belief in "invisible man in the sky" as it is yours to defend your choice of clothing for the day, or what music you listen to. There is no empirical manner to "prove" faith, although, admittedly, there are those who try. However, we must be able to delineate between people who have faith in a benevolent being who maintain a similarly benevolent lifestyle, and those who are overzealous about thier belief to the degree of detriment to others. Someone's belief in said "invisible man" in no way is to your detriment. Therefore, unless your purpose is to agitate, it is of little consequence or benefit to do argue such a topic. Minds are not changed through direct confrontation of belief.

    And let's not forget where someone went to a primarily Cathoic school. Seems like quite a telling affiliation to me.

    What many people don't like is to challenged to defend their faith, which by definition, is impossible to defend, or refute. This is the reason that religion and science tend to differ; science is based largely upon evidence and observation, religion is based upon faith. Apples and oranges.

    note: I apologize for chiming in on something that isn't my business. I am a friend of a friend, was cruising some posts, and feel a need to defend those who are defending a belief, or membership of an organization, of whom some members have well surpassed their "duties", to the point of harming/maiming/killing others. In every large enough population/organization there are elements which will act to the detriment of the population to which they belong. Feel free to delete this.
    • Re: What no one has mentioned

      Faith is a premise that needs no proof- unless you enter a debate on the validity of religion. Faith is only inarguable within the scope of that faith- to someone outside of it, it's nothing more than an intellectual cop-out.

      At some other point I can pick more at this argument- I'll get back to it when I'm not working.
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